Types of BDSM

The Atlanta Mistress Explains BDSM

There are so many different forms of BDSM. People often ask me what to expect in a typical session, yet each person is unique. It depends on your fetishes, your fantasies and most importantly, your responses. I never like to go into a session scripted because that takes away from the intimacy, creativity and spontaneity of the exchange. However, I do want to know what you have been fantasizing about so I have an idea of what buttons to push. I can give you an overview of the types of BDSM sessions I provide, but I cannot necessarily tell you what you can expect because I do not know what to expect until we play. This is an intimate and personal exchange and every experience is different.

Sensual Domination

Our society does not think of men as being sensual. I suspect this is why I receive so many requests for sensual domination sessions. These are sessions where a beautiful woman controls the man. Tease and denial as well as pleasing the Mistress are all part of sensual domination. It is more of a boyfriend/ girlfriend exchange and tends to be on the vanilla side of BDSM. It is perfect starting point for novices. We may explore some light bondage to create the feeling of helplessness or loss of control, the art of seduction to encourage pleasing and servitude, beginners nipple play and cock and ball erotic torture to get the adrenaline going and create new sensations.

He enters the room and the Mistress grabs his hard cock pulling him into her. Pressed against a wall, he feels her naked body slide up and down his. She whispers in his ear all of the things she will force him to do starting with kissing her beautiful breasts and ass. His balls are tightly tied and he can feel how sensitive every part of him grows under her sensual touch. Teasing his cock, he thinks he might cum but then she stops, wickedly laughs and begins to bite a nipple. Moving back and forth, all over his bound and helpless body, she bites a nipple, teases his cock, slides her nails between his thighs. The sensations are overwhelming and he does not know what will come next. He is helpless and under her control. All he can do is allow her to take charge and hope that he can please her.

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Domination and Corporal Punishment

All of my sessions are sensual but some dominations sessions involve more intense play. Please keep in mind that all forms of BDSM play can be light, medium or heavy. Light play tends to be pleasurable and sensual. Medium play starts to get the adrenaline going and some people find that the natural high makes everything better. Heavy play is rare. It is for people who enjoy pushing their limits in an attempt to get into "subspace."

Why is the combination of pain and pleasure such a rush? Intense pleasure and pain triggers the sympathetic nervous system, which causes the release of epinephrine or adrenaline. It is part of the flight or fight response and creates a similar effect as morphine based drug. Heavy players may feel like they are having an out of body experience, which is commonly called subspace. Light and medium players will experience the rush of epinephrine but not to the degree of hard-core players. But you do not have to be hard-core to enjoy the effects of epinephrine or adrenaline. In fact, it is safer to stay on the light to medium end of BDSM.

Domination may include bondage, nipple torture, cock and ball torture, electrical play, temperature play and sensory deprivation just to name a few. This type of play is typically more intense than sensual domination and may take a while for someone new to understand and be comfortable with. Both the physical and psychological dimensions are expanded and pushed with more traditional domination.

His arms and legs are tied to the table. Unable to move, he watches every move his Mistress makes. Smiling down at him, she pinches each nipple, making them so sensitive before placing nipple clamps on each. He lets out a moan, pleasure mixed with subtle pain. He feels his heart rate increase and tries to relax, let her take over. She sits on his chest now. All he can see is her beautiful ass. Lifting his head up, he begins to kiss her ass when he feels a new sensation on his cock. It feels like little fingers moving up and down. Electrical fingers. She glances back at him with seductive smirk. He loves knowing that she is enjoying herself.

He hears something. Did she light a match? Slowly, she turns away from him. Still sitting on his chest, she lifts herself up and smothers his face. The first hot drop hits his right nipple. He now realizes she lit a candle. Helpless under her pussy and ass, unable to move or see what she is doing, she plays with the nipple clamps, caresses his flesh, turns up the electricity on his cock, teases his balls with her nails and continues to drip hot wax on his flesh.

Corporal punishment refers to erotic spanking and discipline. Once again, corporal punishment can come in varying degrees of light, medium or heavy. The sensation of flogging can feel like a massage. Bringing blood to the surface of the skin, the flogged body parts become more sensitive. This is also true of paddles, crops and canes. In addition, these implements can be used on several different parts of the body to create sensitivity and release adrenaline. Buttocks, upper thighs, upper back and shoulders, and the cock and nipples are my favorite areas to exploit. Light to medium corporal punishment will not leave marks. I can lightly flog or paddle someone all day without leaving a single mark, yet still achieve the exhilarating desired effect. Heavy corporal punishment will leave marks that last 1 to 3 days. I never leave marks unless someone specifically requests marks and I never leave marks that are permanent. I have no interest in that type of play.

He has been a naughty boy. Caught sniffing the Mistress's panties again, he is now strung up and waiting punishment. She begins by slowly taunting him. Walking past his naked, vulnerable body, she stops and presses her ass against his cock. Her head leans back, close to his and she whispers, "Tell me what you have done?" He ties to deny everything so one by one, she places the implements of punishment on a table next to him. If he is going to be punished, he will see what is being used. He tries to beg for mercy and instead, she takes her wet panties off and stuffs them in his mouth to silence him.

First the horsetail flogger on his back and ass. He is enjoying himself and she can see his cock grows harder with every lick. Moving to the front of him, she stares into his eyes, teases his hard dripping cock and then begins to flog the head with the horsetail. She takes her time punishing him with each individual implement. Every part of him. Starting in the back and moving to the front. Crop to the nipples, cane to the cock, paddle to the ass and all the while, teasing him and forcing his cock to remain hard.

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Humiliation

Before we begin, let me state that I do not get turned on by name-calling. Humiliation, in my mind, should be fun and playful. Many men who are in positions of control love being "forced" to do things they normally would not do. This may include golden showers, spitting or face slapping. My clients do not have low self-esteems, in fact, they are very confident individuals who are in control and rarely experience humiliation. It is a simple role reversal and release.

She slaps his face hard. A stunned look on his face he tries to move away, but she grabs him by the neck with one hand and his cock with the other. "Get down on your knees. Now." She pushes him to the floor. "You want to be a little slut? Then sniff my panties." Her hand on the back of his head, she shoves his face between her thighs. "That's right. Sniff. Can you smell that wet pussy? What would you do for that wet pussy?" Looking up, he meekly replies, "Anything you tell me to, Mistress." "Then open your mouth," she orders. She bends down and touches the head of his cock. Standing above him with pre-cum dripping from her fingers, she says "Now lick that off of my fingers." He obeys and as he sticks his tongue out she spits in his mouth. "All of it. Eat the cum and my spit."

"Now to the floor," she commands. "Stroke my cock, you nasty little bitch. You still want that pussy, don't you?" "Please", he begs lying naked and exposed on the floor, cock in hand. He begins to stroke and as he grows harder, the Mistress removes her panties and stands over him. "Jerk that cock for me. Get my cock hard. You wanted my pussy, you slut, and now you will get it." As she finishes her sentence, he begins to feel a warm flow over his cock. She is covering him in her golden nectar. It is more than he can bare and as she marks her territory, he looses all control and cums like a dirty whore for his Mistress.

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Slut Training

We still live in a male dominated world and as a result, many of the sexual images we see are of women being objectified. In everyday reality, objectification of one sex can have serious psychological impacts, but in fantasy, objectification can be used as a way to release our inhibitions. From a young age, our parents, society and religious leaders tell us that certain behaviors are dirty or immoral. It is true that engaging in sexual activities requires a great deal of personal responsibility, but consenting adults practicing safe sex can free themselves of the shame instilled at an early age through objectification or as I like to say, slut training. Let your inner slut emerge.

"Today, you are going to be my little slut. I am going to teach you how to suck and fuck cock for me," she said with a wicked smile as she tied down his legs. He struggled to get away and tried pleading but before he could get the words out of his mouth, she grabbed a handful of hair and shoved his mouth towards her 8 inch cock. Black latex covering her body, the only thing on her that was flesh colored was her strap on. "Open. Open wide, you little whore. I just fucked one of my slave girls with this cock and it is still dripping wet from her pussy. I want you to clean it for me and when you are finished, I am going to fuck your pussy too."

Society would say that this type of behavior is dangerous and it could be in an unsafe setting. But in a safe, consensual environment, we can live out our deepest and darkest fantasies without risk and free from judgment. We all have a secret identity and releasing and expressing our secret sides can be highly therapeutic. We can rid ourselves of the shame and guilt that prevents us from obtaining a fully satisfying sex life.

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Role Playing

Role-playing is one of my favorite ways to express BDSM/ fetish fantasies. It allows both the dominant and submissive to actively participate in shaping the fantasy. The wonderful thing about fantasy is you can safely live out activities that would be unsafe in a real life setting. For example, if you have a fantasy of being kidnapped and used as a sex slave, in reality that fantasy could be risky but in the creative world of BDSM, you can experience the fantasy in a safe environment.

He wakes to discover that he is unable to move or see. Slowly coming to his senses, he can feel rope tied around his wrists and ankles. A hood covers his head. Frightened, he begins to scream for help. He cannot recall how he got here or how long he has been in this position. Lying on his back, he struggles to free himself but it is useless. He has no idea where he is, who his captor or captors are and what they intend on doing with him. Suddenly, he hears footsteps, a door opening and then silence. He cannot see, but he can feel that someone else is in the room with him. They are watching him. He feels their stare even beneath that dark hood.

"What do you want!" he screams. Silence. "Who's there? Please answer me. Please." More silence followed by laughter, wicked laughter. It is a woman. High heels click against the floor. She is walking closer. He anxiously waits. What does she plan on doing to him. She slides his hood off. Eyes temporarily blinded by the light, his blurred vision slowly clears and he sees standing above him the woman he met at the bar last night. "Why am I here? What have you done to me?" he begs. "You are here to satisfy me anyway I choose and once I have been satisfied, you will please each and everyone of my girlfriends," she coolly replies with barely an expression on her beautiful face.

"How? How should I please you?" he is now desperate for answers. With her back now turned to him, she slides her skirt off. He lifts his head up and sees her perfect ass. Thinking she may want to have sex with him, his cock grows hard and he begins to relax, but when she turns to face him, he discovers something even more devious than he had suspected. A large cock hangs from her pelvic area. She is wearing a strap on. "No. No. You have the wrong guy. This is fucked up. Let me go now." Frantic, his words rapidly spill out only to fall on deaf ears. She grabs a hand full of hair with one hand and spreads his lips open with the other. Before he can protest further, she shoves her cock into his mouth. Gagging, he tries to shake his head and escape this huge cock being forced down his throat but his struggling is in vain. She will have her way with him and so will all of her girlfriends. "How many girlfriends does she have?" he helpless wonders while she proceeds to victimize him.

These are the more common forms for BDSM play. You may be interested in only one area or you may have interests in many areas. It depends on the individual. Together, we can discover what forms of BDSM and fetish turn you on.

Once again, please remember that professional domination services do not involve prostitution, which means oral sex or intercourse. BDSM is the perfect outlet for creative individuals who want to experience something kinky and different but are not interested in potential health risks. This is why I love domination. We can have an erotic, sensual and kinky experience together and not have to worry about anything the next day.

When you are ready to have the ultimate BDSM experience, contact Atlanta's Dominatrix, Mistress Rikka.

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