The Atlanta Dominatrix Plays with Boys and Girls

Expressing your sexual desires can be embarrassing. You never know how your partner will react and the risk of rejection is often a humiliating fear that people do not want to face. The problem with not communicating your fantasies and desires with your partner is that they will not subside. They will grow and eventually lead to sexual frustration that could compromise and harm the relationship.

Explaining why some people like BDSM and others do not is like explaining why some people like Country music and others do not. It is a personal preference. Some people, like myself, recall having fantasies with BDSM themes as early as childhood and others became interested later in life. BDSM is merely an expression of your sexuality. Just because you think about being dominated does not mean that you do not also fantasize about making love or being held. It is just another normal and healthy expression of your sexual desires and nothing to be ashamed of.

I frequently work with couples and I find these sessions to be the most fulfilling. My couple clients are not "regulars". They come out to play once in a while to spice their love life up or to get training, but the reward of knowing that I helped a couple in one of the most important parts of their relationship makes these sessions a wonderful and fulfilling experience for me.

Some individuals may find it strange that their partners want to be hurt or humiliated. During couple’s sessions, I explain that they are not "hurting" or "humiliating" their partner. They actually receive a form of pleasure from the pain and humiliation. It is more about enhancing and intensifying various sensations as well as power play or role reversal. These methods can be highly therapeutic. Giving up control, creating new sensations, expressing a side of yourself that cannot be expressed throughout the week: all of these aspects provide balance and release.

I also show women different techniques to drive men wild. Strap on and prostate massage is a very difficult subject for men to explain. "He must be gay," is usually the first response. The prostate is the male g-spot. As some women know, a g-spot orgasm is very different from a clitoral orgasm. It can be deeper and more intense. When a man cums from penis stimulation alone, it is different from a prostate stimulation orgasm. It can also deeper and more intense. No, men who like prostate play are not gay. They just like to cum and they enjoy the different sensations of cumming whether it is through a hand job, oral sex, vaginal/ anal penetration or prostate stimulation. This is just one area of BDSM sexual pleasure training I provide.

I welcome couples training for anyone interested but my focus is on men who are having a difficult time expressing their desires to their female partner. If you have been yearning to express your BDSM fantasies to your partner, let her read over this page and explore my website. Tell her she can contact me directly. I will be happy to answer her questions and will always be respectful to her boundaries during play or training time. My goal is to educate couples on the beauty of BDSM and fetish and hopefully enrich their sex life.

If you and your partner are interested in couples play or training, contact me.